I am momentarily depressed. My almost four-year old daughter pees in her pants an average of three or four times a day (those are big accidents. She probably has seven all together). I am sick of potty training. I am tired of treats, reminders, lectures, changing clothes, washing clothes, all of it. She doesn't care if she wets herself. She keeps running and playing. She won't tell me, hardly tries to make it to the potty. I am sad and frustrated and worn out. Any suggestions?